“Why would I give birth to a child in the world that I can hardly afford to live in myself?” – Naledi, 23, Evaton.
It’s the question putting governments, economists, and aunties into a spin: “Where are the babies?”
If you were born in the ’90s, it’s likely you’re part of the last generation to have children at scale.
Fertility is declining globally – and South Africa is no exception.
The Numbers Don’t Lie
According to Stats SA, the nation’s overall fertility rate declined from 2.9 children per woman in 2001 to a paltry 2.1 in 2021. That’s below replacement level, the rate at which a population will eventually stabilize in the long run. It’s lower still in urban areas like Gauteng and the Western Cape.
Globally, countries like Japan, South Korea, Italy, and even America are declining in population due to a lack of enough babies being born. Then there’s a focus on Gen Z – and they just aren’t here for it.
Why Gen Z Is Not Having Kids
We spoke with some South African born-in-the-2000s folks to get their opinion. What they said is real, raw, and on brand:
“I love kids but can’t even imagine being able to spare them my time. I’m taking two jobs to pay rent and Uber.” – Jabu, 24, Zamdela.
“We watched our parents fight when we grew up. There’s trauma involved. Why do it again?” – Ayanda, 22, Bophelong.
“Climate change, unemployment, inflation. it scares me. It doesn’t feel right to bring a baby into all of this.” – Lindi, 23, Three Rivers.
Their feelings resonate around the world. Research suggests a mix of economic pressures, independence in lifestyle, career ambitions, mental illness, fears of global warming, and even disbelief in institutionally structured ones like marriage and state.
The Cost of Being a Parent in 2025
Raising a child in South Africa is over R1 million just to get them through school – and that’s without university, healthcare, accommodation, and holidays. Youth are balancing the books and asking: Is it worth it?
“You can barely afford yourself – now there’s a mini-you who requires school fees, lunchboxes, and therapy.” – Karabo, 25,Vereeniging.
But Isn’t This A Problem?
Politically, yes. There are fewer babies today and fewer workers and pensioners in the future and more strain on the economy in the long term. It weakens the foundations of our economy and welfare systems. Governments are running around looking for solutions – baby bonuses in Europe to paternity leave campaigns in Asia.
In South Africa? Not so much. But with our young people opting not to have kids, the ripple effects will soon echo into the economy, the education sector, and real estate.
So, What Now?
It’s clear that Gen Z is shattering the stereotype. Kids are no longer the default choice. They’re a conscious, intentional choice – or no choice at all.
As the world evolves, maybe it’s time to ask: How do we allow young people’s dreams, whether or not they include babies?
Because right now, the message is ringing out loud and clear: the future might be baby-free – and it’s okay.
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